Sadly, this is something that younger guys are really bad at.
They will prattle on about themselves incessantly, until the woman they admire is ready to jump out of the nearest window in a last-ditch effort to escape.
The older male, however, knows exactly what his hands, fingers, lips, and tongue are for, and knows when to use them.
Use your sexual sophistication to give her what easily may be her first true orgasm, and have her begging to come back for more. Yes, you’re older, you probably have a better career than any of the younger guys she knows–and consequently, a lot more money.
A conversation should be a two-way street with attempts to solicit information from the other person, and it should involve as much listening as talking–if not more. His levels of empathy and patience have strengthened over time and will prove an invaluable tool in any attempt to woo the object of one’s desires.
She will feel important and worthy of listening to, and will definitely be ready to take things a step further. If you’re lucky enough to progress the relationship to the bedroom, then you’re in a fantastic position to consolidate your superiority over the younger man.
If she’s dating an older man, there’s probably a reason, and the best you can do in this situation is make the most of what you have and who you are.
The following dos and don’ts should give you a better idea how to manage your position in your May-December relationship to your best advantage. One of the main reasons that she’s with you, and not with some stud of her own age, is that younger guys often don’t hit the emotional mark.
This is a strength that the younger woman admires and aspires to. No better place to start than with your voice and mind. You don’t have to be a daredevil stunt driver or extreme sports junkie to pick up some interesting experiences along the way. It may be people you’ve met, places you’ve been on holiday, or anything else that stands out from the normal array of day-to-day activities.Consequently, trying to work out what preconception attracted her to you and acting upon your mistaken logic can actually have a negative effect.Making the most of being an older man with a younger woman The fact is, she fell for you, not a younger guy, and you have to play up your strengths without overcompensating or displaying any insecurities.It is usually the case that the twentysomething male has a “jump straight in, genitals first and only” kind of approach.If he lasts more than the time it takes to cook an egg in his selfish efforts to reach a boiling point, then the woman can count herself lucky.