It often goes something like this: “I spend my days as a busy lawyer and my evenings teaching courses at the local college.Many weekends are spent training for my next marathon and singing in my church choir.” Whew!As a Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40, I’ve seen (and done) it all when it comes to online dating.I’ve seen how rewriting a profile, making it more positive, more aspirational, and less demanding can help the right guys find their way to your inbox. My husband and I met and married when I was 47 and I’m now spending the happiest years of my life. Bobbi invites you to join her Grownup Girls’ Night Out!Because if it doesn’t catch his interest right away, it only takes a single click for him to find one that does.The good news is that unlike a lot of things in life, your profile is easy to change and update.
Be careful not to sound like there is no room in your life for a relationship.
And once you know how it is inadvertently turning off the men who are looking for a positive, fun connection, it’s really not that difficult.
Here are the top five profile mistakes common to women over 40, along with specific tips to make your profile more appealing and reflective of the best you. Your profile is your calling card, not a wish list.
Some statistics show that for every man over 50, there are up to 5 women; over 60, ten women, and so on. The days of sitting back and waiting for anything incoming are over.
If you want to be noticed and rise to the top, it pays to create the best possible profile and keep it polished and shiny.