It’s usually best to keep dates out of sight until there’s a bit of commitment in order to keep kids from feeling anxious or overwhelmed by frequent introductions.Make sure you carve out intentional time with your children; physically and verbally demonstrate that they will always be your priority and that your new dating life will not threaten the way you feel about them.Divorce is rarely a deal-breaker in the dating world.It’s a sad but very real fact that about half of marriages end, so prospective partners are often prepared to date people who’ve been married before.While you probably shouldn’t spill intimate details of your marriage’s demise on a first date, be honest and open (if/when appropriate) about the fact that you’re divorced.Don’t judge yourself on your date’s behalf; you’ll likely be surprised at the empathy and grace extended in response to your honesty.Don't avoid discussing the fact that you're divorced; just approach it effectively.
Yes, it can be disheartening to jump back in to the dating world; weren't you supposed to be done with this?
Stay positive, embrace the adventure, expect a few disappointments, and see your life as an unfolding story, one that will be worth telling. Keep an open mind, take a few deeps breaths, and go easy on yourself.
If you realize, mid-date, that you’re not ready to date, you can give yourself more time before pursuing anything further.
Divorce is not easy, but the challenges in life are what cause us to grow.
You want your new dates to like you for who you actually are, not some fantasy.