Instead, take a look at what you've been trying and how, and think of ways to do it better. Rachel says that there's no shame in hiring a dating coach.Hey, we have personal trainers, therapists, and head hunters. I will definitely be trying out some of this advice."The reality is that most people are doing everything wrong," said Scott Valdez, founder of Virtual Dating Assistants."People in general on dating sites need a lot of help." Singles post mirror selfies as profile pics. Or they simply don't put in the time and effort necessary to get results.
We had a lot of success." Related: We want your love: Apps compete for online daters Soon, friends and family were begging to use his assistant too. The business, which has mostly male clients, offers profile writing for 0 or monthly messaging packages where Vi DA takes over your communication, which runs about an hour.(The Frisky) -- Matchmaker and dating coach Rachel Greenwald is responsible for 750 marriages, and she doesn't believe you will find the love of your life by waiting for him/her to spontaneously appear in line at the grocery store or sit next to you on the subway. Or Never Call Back," just hit bookstores and has some ingenious ideas for us. An important step in working on your love life is letting people know that you're looking. "It's much more sophisticated then it was a few years ago," she says. Her new book, "Have Him at Hello: Confessions from 1,000 Guys About What Makes Them Fall in Love ... So, if you don't already have a rocking online profile ... But Rachel also recommends Twitter as an alternative source. Tell them to bring friends." Rachel's also a big fan of The average customer spends ,000 and usually meets someone within three and half months, said Valdez, who added that it usually takes 12 first dates to meet someone.Valdez has 35 employees -- both part- and full-time -- 15 of whom are writers.