Contrary to what you may think, getting hit on or appearing approachable to men isn’t really a game of chance where you just have to wait it out.And contrary to what most women think, you don’t have to do something outrageous or provocative to get a guy to walk up to you and say hello!Let him know that you’re interested in getting to know him better.Even if you’re talking to your friend and he’s sitting at the next table, look towards him when he looks at you even as you answer your friend. Look at him now and then, and when you catch his eye, tuck your hair behind your ear, look down and smile to yourself.
This is a more confident and bolder way of letting the guy know you’re interested. And for the quick and coy approach, you could look towards him suddenly when he’s staring towards you, catch his eye, and immediately look at a friend or look down in an obvious manner.[Read: 25 really easy ways to make yourself cuter and melt a guy’s heart at first glance! Don’t be too engrossed with your phone or a book, or something else.You may be bored and trying to keep yourself busy, but chances are, doing that will make the guy who wants to approach you back away because you appear too busy to be interested in a conversation with him. Now this goes against the first tip on looking good, but there’s also a drawback of looking too good for the guy![A good looking girl’s confession: Are we really so mean?] But then again, on the other hand, the only guys who feel confident enough to approach you would be the guys who think they’re worthy of you *the alpha males, the achievers, and of course, the players! If you really want to catch the eye of a shy guy who seems nice but is too scared to approach you, try being friendly and warm to the people around you. [Read: 12 ways to get a shy guy to approach you and ask you out] 13 tips to be more approachable to men So you want to catch a guy’s eye and make him walk up to you? You’ll get everyone’s attention alright, but the only guys who would approach you are the ones who are looking for a quick one night stand.